Re-discover Your Best Friend & Your Lover
Couples therapy in Cary & Durham to build deep connection and passionate intimacy.
No one deserves to feel alone and helpless in their relationship.
When our relationship with our significant other is in trouble, it can feel incredibly isolating. Despite our best efforts to fix things, we often find that our attempts only make matters worse.
Disconnection and conflict grow, intimacy fades, and we are left wondering how we lost the passion and connection we once had.
Most couples wait an average of six years too long to seek help, waiting until they are at the end of their rope before trying therapy.
But couples therapy offers a path to reconnect, communicate effectively, and rebuild the relationship’s foundation, restoring the love and passion that once flourished.
Couples Therapy with Mathews Counseling.
Learn to express your needs and listen to your partner more effectively.
Learn to express your needs and listen to your partner more effectively.
Gain tools to manage and resolve disagreements in a healthy manner.
Gain tools to manage and resolve disagreements in a healthy manner.
Reignite the physical and emotional connection that initially brought you together.
Reignite the physical and emotional connection that initially brought you together.
Restore trust in each other, especially after breaches like infidelity.
Restore trust in each other, especially after breaches like infidelity.
THERAPY FOR EVERY STAGE OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP
Dating
Build a strong foundation by improving communication and understanding early on in your relationship.
Pre-Marital
Support as you prepare for marriage by addressing expectations, roles, and potential challenges.
Newlywed
Help as you get adjusted to married life, fostering effective conflict resolution and shared goal-setting.
Parenting
Help and support as you navigate parenting responsibilities while maintaining a connected relationship.
Empty Nest
Support as you reconnect and redefine your relationship after your children leave home.
Retirement
Assistance in facing new challenges and enjoying your time together, strengthening your bond.
Couples Therapy That Helps You Move Forward—Together
We know how difficult it can be to find high-quality couples therapy that feels like it will actually make a difference. It’s common to feel skeptical about whether therapy can truly help your relationship move forward.
At Mathews Counseling, we built a team of qualified couples therapists who are skilled in addressing both individuals’ concerns, while helping your relationship move forward.
Your relationship matters, and we are here to support you every step of the way.
WHY MATHEWS COUNSELING FOR COUPLES THERAPY IN DURHAM & CARY?
Telehealth also available anywhere in North Carolina.
PERSONALIZED THERAPIST MATCHING
We match the right therapist with your unique relational needs. Our process ensures you are matched with a therapist whose expertise, personality, and approach align with your relationship goals and preferences.
TAILORED THERAPY PLANS
We do not believe in “one size fits all” therapy. We work with you to create a therapy plan that addresses your relationship’s specific concerns and goals, and utilizes your unique strengths and circumstances.
EVIDENCE BASED TECHNIQUES
We use proven methods like the Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) to improve communication, resolve conflicts, and rebuild trust. These techniques are grounded in decades of research and are highly effective in enhancing relationship dynamics.
HOLISTIC SUPPORT
We view your relationship as a whole, addressing mental, emotional, and relational needs. Our therapists consider every aspect of your relationship, from communication and intimacy to shared goals and individual growth, ensuring comprehensive support.
BALANCED APPROACH
We ensure both partners’ concerns are understood and addressed, making therapy balanced and fair. Our therapists facilitate open dialogue, giving equal attention to both individuals and fostering mutual respect and understanding.
QUALIFIED & EXPERIENCED THERAPISTS
Our licensed couples therapists are highly trained in couples therapy, ensuring effective and professional guidance. Each therapist is supported through peer and senior therapist supervision, tailored trainings, and the collective experience of their team.
In-Person and Online Appointments Available
COUPLES THERAPY FOR EVERY ISSUE
HIGH CONFLICT
We teach couples to manage and reduce frequent, intense arguments in a way that leads to actual resolution.
SEXUAL INTIMACY
We help couples rekindle physical and emotional connection, enhancing intimacy and sparking passion.
LIFE TRANSITIONS
We guide couples through significant changes like moving, career shifts, or retirement, ensuring they stay connected.
AFFAIR RECOVERY
We provide a space to help couples rebuild trust and address the underlying issues that led to infidelity.
PARENTING DISAGREEMENTS
We support couples in aligning their parenting styles and managing conflicts.
COMMUNICATION PROBLEMS
We help couples learn to express themselves clearly and listen to each other effectively.
Learn more about Couples Therapy at Mathews Counseling.
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WHAT CLIENTS ARE SAYING ABOUT OUR COUPLES THERAPISTS:
“Our therapist has been extremely helpful in our sessions. We have learned so much and continue to do so! My husband and I communicate so much better and are both working on things individually and together.”
“Our time with [our therapist] was invaluable in helping us being able to communicate more effectively and honestly. The strategies we learned have strengthened us both as a couple and individually. We are so thankful we found him.”
“Our therapist is very easy to speak with – we felt an immediate connection to her and [through] our conversations we are able to immediately improve our situation.”
“Our therapist is personable and warm-hearted. He has been great at providing tools, being easy to talk to and creating an environment where we both feel comfortable sharing, having productive conversations, leading us to self-discovery.”

LEARN MORE ABOUT OUR RELATIONSHIP THERAPISTS IN CARY & DURHAM
Watch videos and read bios of all of our amazing therapists. Get to know them and feel confident in choosing the right fit for you.
Don’t know which one to choose? Give our office a call and we will help you find the perfect fit.
QUALIFIED AND VERIFIED THERAPISTS

Your relationship matters too much to wait one more day.
Request your appointment today for couples therapy in Durham & Cary.
Telehealth also available anywhere in North Carolina.
What to Know About Paying for Couples Therapy
At Mathews Counseling, we want to make sure you have clear information as you plan for your relationship care. All couples sessions are private pay and not billable to insurance. We also know that investing in your relationship is meaningful—and it should still be accessible. To help, we offer several flexible payment options: Learn More
If you’re unsure which option fits your situation best, our team is here to help you navigate your choices so you can focus on what matters most—your relationship.



